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A Message From Your Black Trophy Girlfriend and Your Black Token Friend
Abigail Badu Abigail Badu

A Message From Your Black Trophy Girlfriend and Your Black Token Friend

Since the horrific, brutal, and disgusting murders of Ahmaud Arbery, Breonna Taylor, and George Floyd, I have been taking some time to check in with myself. Crying whenever my memory reminds me of the second gunshot that shot through Ahmaud and the raspy voice of George calling for his mother as life was being drained from him with the knee of a power-hungry murderer.

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Dear Younger Me,
Abigail Badu Abigail Badu

Dear Younger Me,

[…]looking at where I am now, I am genuinely grateful for taking that step.

Acknowledging and embracing your struggles is a crucial and often difficult step. It requires authenticity and vulnerability, exposing scars and wounds created by both your actions and the influences of others. Here are three lessons I've learned through this journey…

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Dear Justin, I am Sorry
Abigail Badu Abigail Badu

Dear Justin, I am Sorry

it wasn't until I had said my goodbyes, driven 5 minutes away from camp, and played the beautiful song one camper dedicated to the experience, that I was able to let myself cry. […]

it is when you stop fighting the storm that you can sit in the eye of the hurricane and make it to the end so that you may witness the beautiful rainbow God has designed.

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