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Where You Go I Will Go: When God Sends You a Ruth
We have been reading the book of Ruth through only one lens. We scan the pages for Boaz and miss the covenant that made everything else possible. Before there was a harvest or a blessing, there was Ruth choosing to stay with Naomi in the middle of her devastation.
This post looks at what that kind of loyalty teaches us about healing in community, and I share the story of the three people who showed up at my door during my hardest August, when I could not even answer the phone. You do not need a full cup to show up for someone. You just need to go.
Forgiveness Has a Scope, And a Boundary
Forgiveness and boundaries are not opposites. You do not have to stay in what is hurting you to prove that your forgiveness is real.
In Part 3 of the Forgiveness Series we talk about the full scope of forgiveness — who, what, where, and when — and we name something the church doesn't always say clearly enough: being a woman of God does not mean being silent about harm. We explore what Jesus actually said about leaving, what boundaries really are, why pursuing justice is not unforgiveness, and what forgiving yourself has to do with all of it. This one is for the woman who has been told that staying was the faithful thing to do.
Because He First Forgave Us
Why does Jesus ask us to forgive? It's a fair question — and the answer is more convicting than comfortable. In Part 2 of the Forgiveness Series we get honest about the Jonah moment — that place where you don't want grace to be available to the person who hurt you. We explore the difference between reading the Bible with a Disney mindset versus an honest one, what Matthew 18 really says about forgiveness, and the difference between guilt and God's conviction. Because guilt keeps you ashamed and stuck. God's conviction points you toward hope. And that difference changes everything.
When God Says, No
There are seasons in life where you’re grieving something you can’t quite name yet. You’re just in it—confused, faithful, hurting, and somehow still showing up. I know that feeling all too well. This is my story of heartbreak, obedience, and learning to trust God when He says no. It’s about letting go of what I wanted, grieving the future I imagined, and finding healing in the middle of unanswered questions and unexpected endings. If you’ve ever wrestled with God’s “no,” struggled to let go, or found yourself searching for peace in the midst of heartbreak, this conversation is for you.
Compassionate Conversations: The Art of Listening to Others and Yourself
Ever noticed how your heart leaps when someone truly listens to you? It's like an unspoken affirmation that says, "You matter." In a world buzzing with noise, the art of active listening becomes a gift—an acknowledgment that transcends words. As Maya Angelou beautifully put it, "I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." Let's explore how this simple act can be a catalyst for healing and connection.
Discover the art of active listening and introspection in this heartfelt blog post. Learn how these practices not only foster connections with others but also become a source of healing and self-discovery. Dive in, tune in, and let compassion guide your conversations. 💬
Unlearning Toxic Habits: Breaking Free from Self-Sabotage
As someone who cherished the safety of singleness for years, I found comfort in declining dates, shielding myself from vulnerability. It took a moment of reflection to realize that beneath my peaceful exterior lurked the subtle saboteur, preventing me from fully living. Self-sabotage, often disguised as protection, keeps us confined to comfort zones, hindering our personal growth.
Dive into the intricate dance of breaking free from self-sabotage in our latest blog post. Learn strategies for identifying toxic habits and practical tips for unlearning this hindrance to personal growth. Explore the fine line between self-sabotage and intuition. Take intentional steps towards self-compassion and radical change. Ready to shape your destiny?