Posts in Advice
Dear You,

By sharing with you and bearing my weakness on my sleeves, I hope that these lessons and experiences guide you to not just living your best life (can we stop this phrase? I mean weren't we already living our best life? Do we even have a worst lives?) but being the best version of yourself you could ever be.

To me, only by allowing myself to express all that I am will I be able to embrace and love the beauty of being me. So you can say, blogging is my medication.

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Lessons I'm Taking Into 2019

What a year this has been. From moving to a new place to getting pets and deciding to allow Christ into every aspect of my life entirely, 2018 has been one for the books. The year of growth. Yup, that's what I'm going to call it.

There has been an overarching theme of self-growth, self-love, and self-care for me this year. I'm praying that as the clock strikes midnight and we step into a new year, we continue to prioritize these aspects of our growth. I don't want to forget that make sure I'm happy and healthy will result in living the life I was always wanted. So as a promise to myself, I decided to write down seven valuable lessons I learned from God about myself and relationships. These are lessons I pray that I store away in the back of my mind.

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Time to Call Myself Out!

Every relationship people covet and claim as wonderful required constant communication. Just as it is important to properly communicate with your SIGNIFICANT other when you’re upset, it is just as imperative to properly understand and interpret the information your actions and thoughts are sending. You can’t do anything correctly if you’re not working properly.

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What I Wish I Had Known Sooner

I could never imagine going through a divorce but similar to Tamara, I have and still am learning to be alright knowing that I’m different. I accepted Christ at a young age as well and have always been the type of person who just doesn’t like going along with what everyone is doing because I always knew what I like and what I didn’t like. Being alright with being different isn’t easy and since I haven’t mastered that level of self acceptance yet, I will say that it can definitely be a life long lesson.

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Mic Drop: How to Choose Your Glam Squad...Properly

I titled this post based on the list because not all of us can have a glam squad like celebrities. However, the people we allow to be a part of our inner circle are there to help shape us inside and out so that we can be the best versions of ourselves. All friendships are a give and take relationship. As your squad helps you to become the best version you can be, you have to also look within yourself and assist them in being the best the can be.

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